"Meditation does not imply only the development of single-pointed concentration, sitting in some corner doing nothing. Meditation is an alert state of mind, the opposite of sluggishness; meditation is wisdom. You should remain aware every moment of your daily life, fully conscious of what you are doing and how you are doing it." - Thubten YesheHave you ever found it hard to motivate yourself to do something that was good for you, only to eventually do it, feel amazing, and wonder why you waited so long?
Thatâs what meditating was like for me. Even though I knew I could do it for only five minutes each day to feel calmer, less stressed, and more present, I found excuses not to do it regularly for years.
Iâd tell myself five minutes wasnât enough; I really needed thirty or more, and I didnât have that time, so why bother?
Iâd lament that I was too anxious to sit still (ironic, considering that I knew meditating could calm my anxiety).
Iâd complain that my environment was too distracting (irony yet again, since meditation ultimately helps us focus and better deal with distractions).
And then there was my most commonly used excuse: âIt just doesnât work for me.â
Of course it didnât âwork.â I wasnât meditating with any consistency. And when I did, I got impatient with my own busy brain, like watching the proverbial pot that wouldnât boil, instead of simply easing into the experience.
I was approaching it with a perfectionist mindset, as if I needed to eventually have a completely clear mind to be âgood at it.â
Everything changed for me when I realized I could meditate in many different ways, to suit my schedule, moods, and needs; and that the only goal was to show up, mindfully observe my inner life, and practice detaching from my thoughts.
It was okay if I never achieved complete mental clarity. The practice itself, with its mental messiness and mind wandering, was the path to more clarity in my daily life.
And itâs not just about mental clarity. Adopting a regular meditation practiceâeven just five minutes a dayâcan improve your sleep, regulate your mood, boost your resilience, and help ease and prevent a number of physical ailments.
No other habit positively impacts so many areas of your life simultaneously. Because meditation helps reduce anxiety, depression, stress, and anger, while improving your focus, presence, and physical health, it bleeds into all areas of your lifeâyour work, your relationships, your hobbies.
Literally everything can transform, over time, with just five minutes each day.
Whether youâre new to meditation or just looking for some alternative ways to fit mindfulness into your daily life, you may enjoy trying one or more of my favorite practices, includingâŠ
1. Alternate Nostril Breathing
Hold your left nostril down with your left thumb and inhale through your right nostril. Then close your right nostril with your left index finger, so both are closed, and hold the breath. Release your left nostril only and exhale.With your right nostril still closed, inhale through your left. Now close your left nostril with your thumb, so both nostrils are closed, and hold the breath. Release your index finger from your right nostril and exhale.
This is one set. Complete a minimum of five sets to harmonize the left and right hemispheres of your brain, calm your nervous system, and create a sense of relaxation and ease.
2. The 100-Breaths Technique
Close your eyes. Feel your back against your chair and your feet pressed firmly on the ground, then gently bring yourself into the present moment. Now start breathing through your nostrils and counting as you go, thinking âandâ for every inhale, and the number for each exhaleâinhale âand,â exhale âoneâ; inhale âand,â exhale âtwo.âFeel your belly rise with each inhalation and let the breaths slow as you count yourself into a greater sense of relaxation. After you reach 100, open your eyes, move your fingers and toes, and bow your head in gratitude for the mental space you created.
3. Full Body Breath Scan
Start by inhaling through your nose, expanding your stomach, and counting to five. As you breathe in, visualize soothing warm light filling your feet, and then exhale through your lips for a count of five, while visualizing yourself releasing any tension you may have been carrying there.Repeat this process for your ankles, your shins, your knees, and so on, all the way up to your head. After you finish scanning your entire body, youâll likely feel lighter, calmer, and more at ease.
4. Lip-Touching Breathing
When aroused, your sympathetic nervous system puts you in a state of high alertâthat sense of âfight-or-flightâ panic that tells you thereâs some sort of threat. Your parasympathetic nervous system, when aroused, produces the opposite feelingâa sense of relaxation and ease.In his book, Buddhaâs Brain, Rick Hanson suggests a few simple ways to stimulate the parasympathetic nervous systemâthe simplest of which is to touch your lip with two fingers.
The lips contain parasympathetic nerve fibers, making this is a simple approach to create a sense of calm that you can use anywhere, anytime. To reap the benefits, all you need to do is touch your lips, breathe slowly, and tell yourself, âI am safe.â
5. Walking Meditation
Though you can practice this any time youâre walking, you may want to find a peaceful place to stroll, in nature. If itâs safe to walk barefoot, this will give you a sense of being more connected to the earth.Stand with your spine straight, with your shoulders and arms relaxed, and take a few inhalations and exhalations to breathe in calming energy and breathe out tension.
Now begin slowly moving forward and sync your breathing with your stepsâright foot, inhale; left foot, exhale. Use all of your senses to fully experience where you areâthe warm feeling of sun on your face, the soft sound of wind rustling leaves on trees. The goal is not to arrive at a destination; itâs simply to be present in the experience of walking. ... read more
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